Friday 16 May 2014

A Sure Way To Break A Spell

By Arline Bradley


It is normally quite hard to free yourself if you have been caught up in a maze where you cannot find your way out. To some extremes you might be unaware of what is happening to you. The causing agent might be uncontrollable to you. For you to break a spell, cautiousness is necessary. You must possess some wisdom in a circumstance of that sort.

The most common type of spell is that of relationships. When you fall in love with someone, you feel like they are the most entire beings in the planet such that you cannot do without them. In most cases, you become so vulnerable to them that they can mistreat you as much as they want. When the second party realizes that individuals are helpless before them, they can use this as a scapegoat to play with your feelings and emotions.

It is quite amazing to realize that someone has full control of your behavior such that they can move you either to the left or the right at will. To add salt to wound, it might be concealed to you while to others who observe you it is conspicuous. You then become defensive to the point of defeating the attempts of the people who are close to you tom reason with you.

Being self aware is the greatest gift you can offer to yourself. Both your weaknesses and strengths make up the whole you. You are actually inhuman when you are without defects, since you will be tending towards the divine. The urge to be stronger and more human is what keeps one going. Accept yourself as you are and never try to be someone else. However, totally neglecting other proposals from people is unwise.

When someone tolerates a feeling of self worth, they rubbish others and mistreat them. Those who could have saved them thus shy off and only look at a distance. Some of the people we take for granted can become our pillars of redemption from the shackles of a spell. They might know the way out and all we need to do is stretch our hands to them and seek for guidance. This cannot happen if we disregard them.

Listening to advise is a crucial step in disentangling yourself from an entanglement. Being in control can wait when it comes to such a time. Give a listening ear and ponder about the information before you react to it. Shame is not as painful as losing yourself worth. You can go through it with time. Pride compromises you dignity if you take it too far. You better suffer shame and remain with a long lasting reputation.

You also must make the necessary move of decision making without considering how painful it might be sometimes. You might be surprised when you realize that a close person like your spouse can easily put you under a spell. As they enjoy close proximity to you, they might collude with your foes to make life hard for you. At such point life becomes unbearable. Make the tough decision and set yourself free.

No one is wise enough to escape a spell. Be vigilant and alert at all times. Evaluate all the circumstances in which you take part to assure yourself that none is manipulative. Anything that you find yourself doing with the full awareness that it is wrong needs deeper scrutiny.




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